by now, a goodly portion of us have either been caught or told someone, or at least wanted to tell someone this hidden identity of ours. and most of the time, the recipient of this information is either left confused, is neutral because it doesnt affect them or has nothing to do with them, or angry, oftentimes because it directly does.
so my question is this: has anyone told someone about it, in a way that resulted in positive feedback? i know that for the most part this act is case sensitive, but surely there must be some general way that this can be imparted to an outsider (romantic or not) that will result in their seeing it in a positive light?
perhaps i'm just being idealistic, thinking there is some one-size-fits-all way to present our ABDL side in a way that either piques their interest or acceptance, but i just thought i'd throw it out there.