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    So I'm stuck at home living with controlling, overbearing parents. For an example of how controlling, two years ago when I decided to learn how to swim at the local YMCA, they tried to talk me out of it. I heard excuses like ''You have a heart condition'' (I have a fast pulse) and ''What if you get water up your nose?'' Well, I almost let them get to me, but didn't; I stood up for myself, took the lessons, and love being in the pool. Yesterday I had to apply for a job I don't want because they bugged me about it - and have an interview tomorrow which I don't really want either.

    Today I got a package from Amazon containing a pack of Abena L4's and a PAW Patrol plushie. My parents were both home at the time; my mother was in the bathroom, but my father was at the front door as I came back inside with the box. He thought it was something he ordered but didn't question me when I said it was for me.

    So my parents left and went grocery shopping, but when they came back, I got interrogated.

    Mother: ''What did you get in the mail today?''
    I: ''Comic books.'' (These are really the only thing I can say that I really won't be questioned too much about.)
    Father: ''Comic books? In that big of a box?''
    I: ''Well I ordered a lot and Amazon uses a big box anyway.''
    Mother: ''What kind of comic books?''
    I: ''My Little Pony ones mostly.''

    They might be a bit suspicious, but I'm not going to worry too much. Sucks enough putting up with them.

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    Sorry about the parents. But yeah, Amazon uses huge boxes. I once ordered a cable for my phone. Came in a box so big, that I could almost fit in it. Talk about a waste. They could have used an envelope or small box.

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    I'm not here to tell you or anyone else how to live your life, really I'm not. That said, if you're old enough to post here (18+), you're an adult. Stand up to your parents. If you don't, they will continue to look at you and treat you like their little kid. Show them you're an adult, and they'll treat you like one. If you don't like the jobs they are "making" you apply for, find a job you do like, apply, and work there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyCorry View Post
    I'm not here to tell you or anyone else how to live your life, really I'm not. That said, if you're old enough to post here (18+), you're an adult. Stand up to your parents. If you don't, they will continue to look at you and treat you like their little kid. Show them you're an adult, and they'll treat you like one. If you don't like the jobs they are "making" you apply for, find a job you do like, apply, and work there.
    Plus 1. You're an adult. Tell them it's none of their business what's in the box. Also, find your own job that you like. I'd be hard pressed to see you getting a job you don't want - as an employer - that stuff comes through interviews.

    ff my soapbox:

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    Aww hey I know exactly how you feel, because I have wanted to wear so much recently, I just had to have Nappies delivered to my parents house, the desire to wear Nappies is so strong lately (it seems when I am depressed and nervous etc I want to be in Nappies more). At the end of the day, your parents have no right to question your parcel(s), you deserve your own privacy and should just be able to take your parcel to your room and like you said just say they are comics. I pray with all my heart you are ok and get to wear a Nappy, it is all worth it once you have one on, all super comfy, snuggly, cosy, warm and everything else I just wish everybody would accept that a lot of people want to wear Nappies for comfort, Nappies are so lovely, I love mine with all of my heart and am a very proud Diaper Lover. If only I had a sweet lady to cuddle with in my soft comfy Nappy I have a big Teddy Bear that I cuddle when I need comforting I really hope you enjoy getting to wear a Nappy buddy, I am in the exact same situation as you and just wish I could help.

    Stay nice and Snuggly, cosy and comfy in your cute Nappy Nap Nap

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    Well easier said than donea lot of person's say stand up to parent's well it's there house there rules .
    Now yes your 23 year's old you know them better then me others don't eather.
    They do care for you but when you move out then your free of the control.
    We all can't afford to live on our own the way every thing costs this day and age.
    Some time's when you follow some one's advice it can back fire.
    Take care be careful when you give advise it can get very bad when you dont know how things are you cant know

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyCorry View Post
    I'm not here to tell you or anyone else how to live your life, really I'm not. That said, if you're old enough to post here (18+), you're an adult. Stand up to your parents. If you don't, they will continue to look at you and treat you like their little kid. Show them you're an adult, and they'll treat you like one. If you don't like the jobs they are "making" you apply for, find a job you do like, apply, and work there.


    Quote Originally Posted by babybobby View Post
    Plus 1. You're an adult. Tell them it's none of their business what's in the box. Also, find your own job that you like. I'd be hard pressed to see you getting a job you don't want - as an employer - that stuff comes through interviews.

    ff my soapbox:
    I figure refusing to tell them what's in the package is only going to heighten their suspicions. Although I did once tell my mom what I did online was none of her business when she asked me, boy that was a pretty awkward moment.

    The thing about jobs is I can't get any I'm remotely interested in. Seeing I've only had one temporary job in the over four years since finishing high school, they're tired of me being unemployed and don't really care if I want the job or not.
    Last edited by KimbaWolfNagihiko; 07-Feb-2016 at 22:14. Reason: spelling

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyCorry View Post
    I'm not here to tell you or anyone else how to live your life, really I'm not. That said, if you're old enough to post here (18+), you're an adult. Stand up to your parents. If you don't, they will continue to look at you and treat you like their little kid. Show them you're an adult, and they'll treat you like one. If you don't like the jobs they are "making" you apply for, find a job you do like, apply, and work there.
    Problem there is, they could justifiably at that point say "you're an adult, so start paying us rent or get out". As long as you're living at your parents, eating their food, etc.. imo you have very little "rights" (both legally or righteously). Once you're legally an adult, their responsibility to take care of you ends in the eyes of the law, and any more support they provide is entirely their decision to give (or take away). If they respect your privacy/give you space/treat you as an adult/etc, great! I imagine my parents would .. but if they don't and want to hassle you about what your bringing into their house or be on your case to get a job, I think that's entirely within their right.

    I do agree that the solution is to "show that you're an adult" by finding a job, getting some income, and either working out an arrangement where you are paying some of the bills (in exchange for being treated more as an adult and less as a kid) or straight up moving out on your own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BoundCoder View Post
    I do agree that the solution is to "show that you're an adult" by finding a job, getting some income, and either working out an arrangement where you are paying some of the bills (in exchange for being treated more as an adult and less as a kid) or straight up moving out on your own.
    If you're disabled or something of that sort, I can see 23 and at home still. But otherwise, I think the only way you're going to get all the perks of being independent is to actually BE more independent. Until then, you're stuck playing the parent's popular "my house, my rules" game, and have little or no grounds to oppose being bossed around or having little privacy. You didn't say if you were paying rent, that would certainly help tip the balance in that regard.

    Not meaning to offend, and if I have I apologize, but I personally have very little experience with living with parents past teens, and really have difficulty relating to the expereiences of those that do. I'd expect most people that never got to deal with that themselves would have difficulty fully understanding what it's like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimbaStarshine View Post
    The thing about jobs is I can't get any I'm remotely interested in. Seeing I've only had one temporary job in the over four years since finishing high school, they're tired of me being unemployed and don't really care if I want the job or not.
    I hope things work out for you but after 23 years of paying and providing everything for you they have a right to be tired of you not taking a job because you're not interested in it. Get a job, move out, then worry about finding your perfect employment. It's how it goes for most everyone. (Not everyone likes their job either, I don't but I still do it)

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