I a 21 year old guy who lives in Minneapolis and am just starting to interact with the ABDL community though I've been one since I was literally like 4 years old.
I'm a DL but I like the printed disposable diapers more than boring white ones haha.
I have a boyfriend, he's not a ABDL but he's supportive of me and I only recently told him of this part of myself! I'm going to try to find a balance in when I wear, I think for me personally it's more of a comfort/stress relief thing.
Hopefully I can become more accepting of this part of myself through this community!
Thanks for reading