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    Hello!
    Many of you know site "abdlmatch.com"? ive read and saw my self that that site "smells funny".
    Many people here knows that site might be huge scam, and dont like it at all (me included).
    So, because i got angry with that site, and there isnt many legit ABDL dating sites (mostly only forums) i might make a new, better and free/cheaper ABDL dating site and i need some opinions from the community.

    Its going to be free at the beginning, but as you know, making and running a site like that is not free, i could run it first with donations maybe, until i get enough users.

    The opinion i want, how many would be willingly pay 8-12 dollars a month if the site is totally legit without any "funny business", with real users and lets imagine there would be atleast 100-200 active users before it would cost anything.

    Second thing im wondering is as some of you know, you have to pay to read the received messages in abdlmatch.com, im wondering if i do similiar system (you have to pay to use it) or if i would make it free to use but you can buy "premium" example: you can upload more pictures, have more mailbox space... etc. but i think not many would pay the premium if they can use it free for good.

    Bottom line is: somehow i must keep the site going and it costs, but how to make it so the community would accept it and maybe pay regulary 8-12 dollars a month.

    How many would like legit ABDL dating site?
    Please let me know your opinions/ideas/suggestions/thoughts!
    ps. sorry my not-so-good english.

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    LittleMathias, that seems like a great idea and it is cool if you have the knowledge to do so. My biggest insight would be that the below websites seem to be "ABDL-friendly" or at least it is much easier to search for other ABDL people. I have not personally used OkCupid but I know they even have an ABDL test on there. I have used fetlife here and there and it is pretty easy to find people that have similar fetishes/desires as you. I also do not know if OkCupid costs any money but I know that I do not pay anything to use fetlife. Fetlife seems to have a lot of different ABDL groups and the best resource that I have found so far to find other "meetup" type events in the area.

    www.fetlife.com
    www.okcupid.com

    Hope that helps!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleMathias View Post
    Hello!
    Many of you know site "abdlmatch.com"? ive read and saw my self that that site "smells funny".
    Many people here knows that site might be huge scam, and dont like it at all (me included).
    So, because i got angry with that site, and there isnt many legit ABDL dating sites (mostly only forums) i might make a new, better and free/cheaper ABDL dating site and i need some opinions from the community.

    Its going to be free at the beginning, but as you know, making and running a site like that is not free, i could run it first with donations maybe, until i get enough users.

    The opinion i want, how many would be willingly pay 8-12 dollars a month if the site is totally legit without any "funny business", with real users and lets imagine there would be atleast 100-200 active users before it would cost anything.

    Second thing im wondering is as some of you know, you have to pay to read the received messages in abdlmatch.com, im wondering if i do similiar system (you have to pay to use it) or if i would make it free to use but you can buy "premium" example: you can upload more pictures, have more mailbox space... etc. but i think not many would pay the premium if they can use it free for good.

    Bottom line is: somehow i must keep the site going and it costs, but how to make it so the community would accept it and maybe pay regulary 8-12 dollars a month.

    How many would like legit ABDL dating site?
    Please let me know your opinions/ideas/suggestions/thoughts!
    ps. sorry my not-so-good english.

    Hi Sisi hear.

    Perhaps a good way would be to have the site free for the first couple of months. And then if people want to continue to use it they have to pay a small membership fee.

    Could it also have playmates for little ones like me. That would like to meet others to play games with and have fun. But not in a sexual way. Because that would be really nice.

    I think a membership fee would be a better way to go.

    I would actually pay to be part of this online community because it has helped me so much.
    And the support network is brilliant. So you've got a good model already.

    Hope it all works out for you.

    Thanks

    Sisi

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleMathias View Post
    How many would like legit ABDL dating site?
    Please let me know your opinions/ideas/suggestions/thoughts!
    ps. sorry my not-so-good english.
    I'm not in the position of having to use one, so weight my opinion accordingly, but my general feeling about ABDL dating sites is that they're a fatally-flawed concept, and simply not worth the trouble. AB/DL is just one small corner of the fetish/kink/alternative lifestyle universe, and is overwhelmingly male besides. Especially if you're a straight male, you can probably assume that an ABDL dating site, however legit, is going to be a waste of time and money. You'll be better off investigating the local fetish scene through something like fetlife, going to meetups, etc., than you will be blindly fishing for almost-nonexistent AB/DL girls through a dating site.

    Exacerbating the gender minority issue for female AB/DLs is the virtual certainty that, if they do sign up on one of those sites, they'll be instantly deluged with creepy requests for dates from people they've never heard of before. I'll wager that the ratio of female to male AB/DLs on those sites is far lower than the overall and already-low ratio of female to male AB/DLs in the world.

    In short: For the male-seeking-female situation, I think the harsh reality is that most will be introducing their females to AB/DL.
    Last edited by Cottontail; 31-Jan-2016 at 17:22.

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    I'm sure there's a market for the ABDL dating site that actually gets it right, but there have been a variety of attempts at creating ABDL dating/networking sites over decades and none of them have gotten it right yet.

    Directly charging for the service is a very steep climb. You need to be offering real value far above and beyond what someone can currently get for free - which in turn requires already having a critical mass of users despite there being a paywall barrier to entry in a highly niche market. It's a chicken-and-egg problem. Actually, it's even harder than that - you have to have a critical mass not just of people but of "high-quality" people, because a dating system doesn't work well if the only people you attract are the kind of people who are really desperate and easily separated from money.

    A few hundred active users spread across the world is not going to be worth $8/month, and moreover, realize that people who find each other will as the very first thing they do move their communication off-site to where it's free.

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    Unfortunately, I think that creating an AB/DL dating site is going to be a huge task when it comes to getting the user base that you want. You can certainly try, but I would suggest to not put all of your hopes and dreams into it. I hate to say it, but fetlife is the only successful place that I know of for an AB/DL dating site, and that is because it also hosts people from all different fetishes. Note: best way to have an enjoyable user experience there, is use chrome and install the adblock add on.

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    Your heart is in the right place, definitely. It would be great if something like this existed, but it's just such a niche thing... There's little you can do to prevent it from having the same issues other dating sites have (too many guys...). The most realistic way to meet another ABDL in real life is going to events, meeting people on forums like this. So maybe some kind of database perhaps where people can say where they are, what kind of person they want to meet, and the site plays matchmaker and matches them up automatically? It might take some creepiness out, but you never know.

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    Lady's tend to hide also how are going to protect them one shows up and get massed hit on.
    So if your going to get it a nice place for them your going to need to fix that .
    Mabey only gal's can send to guy's first or friend the guy's so they can safely filter.
    If you get the girls feeling safe then the guy's will come lol.
    Mabey girls are free.

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    If you were ever to start up a site like this please let everyone over here know. I've just been stung by abdlmatch as there was someone who was messaging me a lot building up my hopes that she might of potentially been my mommy only to disappear. The fact that you have to pay to read messages on abdlmatch is the biggest problem with it. It's horrible paying a subscription to read the message someone has sent you only for them to disappear before you actually get anywhere in real life. I think the idea about not charging until your at a certain point with users is a good idea and to give people plenty of choices when it comes to subscriptions. I really wish there was a good site especially one with more people in the uk where I am. I can't even find anyone near me on fetlife , I'm tired of being lonely and would like to know that any future partners are accepting of my abdl side.

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    Unless you want to make an abdl dating site for men seeking men I can't see many people paying money for it. Women can simply put up a profile on any abdl site stating their gender with no pics or personal info and get messages comming to them within a day for as long as they keep the profile active. The only reason anyone paid for abdlmatch was to read the messages from the diapered fembots and profesional cam performers.

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