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Thread: The struggle for the purity of the soul.

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    Default The struggle for the purity of the soul.

    I am not sure if this is a discussion that is worth having here but here we go. I am a diaper lover and idolize the idea of being a kid at heart. With having the heart of a child we should embody innocence and childlike trust. The problem I see within the community itself is the fact so many of us are addicted to watching diaper videos and pornography. I am no saint here. I have struggled to live this life of mine with a child like innocence, but with so much pornography tied to our community how can we as a community same we only wish to be small at heart but do what feels good and makes me feel great on the surface. I notice deep within my soul that pornography had deeply wounded me and others of us as well. It just causes us to go deeper and deeper into despair because we are advancing something that is inherently evil and draws us away from a life of virtue and goodness, because we look at other human beings as objects for our pleasure and not as a human being, but as a brother or sister. I ask those interested to discuss here that diapers can be a gateway to innocence, but if not on guard it can, and has drawn many into the addiction of pornography. Do you think we should do our part as fellow diaper lovers and adult babies to help put a positive light on our community we should strive to be virtuous people that wear diapers that strive to embody the innocence of a child.

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    I think you may find this crowd to be a little different.

    I can't speak for everyone, but I'm pretty much indifferent to so-called diaper porn. Looked at some of it in the early days of the internet, more or less because of the novelty. Back in the day.. I'll admit to looking at pictures of adult diapers in the Sears catalog.

    Regular porn.... now and then with Mrs. Maxx to get the fire lit. IMHO, the best porn is what I've seen the least of, ie, things got so hot so quick that I have no idea if anything past the first few minutes was any good. Once I take my glasses off, the TV is no more than a light source.

    I like diapers. I like sex. I don't find either to be attractive to the point of addiction. Even less so, pictures of other people enjoying them.
    Last edited by Maxx; 18-Jan-2016 at 03:25.

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    I had to preach a sermon at my church so I talked about filling ourselves with good things. I said that I saw myself as a vessel. Everything we encounter fills that vessel. Much of it may come from just going to work and doing our job. The media makes its appearance and fills us with all sorts of things. When we are bombarded, we begin to believe everything we see and hear. But I suggest that we should take time to empty our conscious that has been so shaped by the mundane, and seek out those things which are the products of greatness.

    I try to read the occasional Pulitzer prize winning novel. I'll take an hour or two to listen to a great symphony, string quartet, piano work and I'll do it in my lounge chair with no other interruptions or distractions. I enjoy riding my bike on our bike trail which runs through the woods and the short hills of the Shenandoah Mountains. It gives me an opportunity to be overwhelmed by the miracle of creation.

    I'm an AB/DL and part of that makes diapers and regression sexual for me. Sometimes that needs to be satiated, but I don't ever feel great about that. Like you, I prefer the innocence of regression so I try to space those times further apart. There's a time and place for many things, but I would rather have more quality and less garbage, by a large margin.

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    I think the issue at heart here is that you do not have a positive view of sexual activity. Humans are naturally sexual beings; there is nothing evil about it. Taking care of one's natural urges doesn't make a person less virtuous. Can a person become addicted to sex or porn? Yes, but as long as everything is enjoyed in moderation there shouldn't be a problem.

    Not everyone who wears diapers desires to feel like a kid. Even with those who do, like me, I don't see the issue with satisfying one's sexual needs. Being an adult baby doesn't take away our other needs. And anyway, sexual fulfillment is not something that's limited to adults - even small children sometimes masturbate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimbaStarshine View Post
    I think the issue at heart here is that you do not have a positive view of sexual activity. Humans are naturally sexual beings; there is nothing evil about it. Taking care of one's natural urges doesn't make a person less virtuous. Can a person become addicted to sex or porn? Yes, but as long as everything is enjoyed in moderation there shouldn't be a problem.

    Not everyone who wears diapers desires to feel like a kid. Even with those who do, like me, I don't see the issue with satisfying one's sexual needs. Being an adult baby doesn't take away our other needs. And anyway, sexual fulfillment is not something that's limited to adults - even small children sometimes masturbate.
    I couldn't have said it better myself.

    I would also say in response to OP, pornography isn't inherently evil, at least within my point of view. Some couples will actually find that they have a better sexual relationship with each other by watching porn together. As for individuals not in a relationship with anybody, it can be helpful when viewed in moderation, to assist in taking care of sexual needs that are naturally persistent.
    In reference to those in the porn industry, it can actually be a potent method for people who have less capability for a good career, to get a high paying job, and later move onto something else now that they can pay for education. Also, many women find that it is empowering to feel attractive like that.
    Perhaps the real downfall of pornography is that it does help develop selective tastes in what is beauty, however not all porn industries operate like that, and realistically, it is humanity in general that is defining beauty while the porn industry is just supplying the demand. Realistically, humanity is the one to blame for putting standards on what beauty looks like, which is also natural based on the laws of natural selection. Other animals in nature are guilty of the very same thing, except that it is usually the male's responsibility to look pretty.


    If you are looking for a community that is based more about the innocence side of AB/DL, then you certainly found the most conservative community on the internet, however there are still a few people even here, such as me, that believe in some more liberal ideals. I think the most important thing about finding purity of the soul, is to discover who you are personally, and then emphasize the really positive parts of who you are, but maintain balance and control over your entire self, suffocating one element of your personality can be your downfall. Think about the human body, the colon is a gross place, but if you were to force yourself to stop pooping just because it is gross, you would eventually die, no way out of it.
    Last edited by Tyger; 18-Jan-2016 at 08:46.

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    Just quoting Jessie from Breaking Bad "I don't sh-t where I eat." As in, I try not to mix the two.

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    Ok! I get that it is supported to a point by most in the community. I ask then why do you think that pornography is supported or liked?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dlforpurity View Post
    Ok! I get that it is supported to a point by most in the community. I ask then why do you think that pornography is supported or liked?
    For a lot of the same reasons that other forms of art are supported.... it appeals to a nearly universal part of the human experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dlforpurity View Post
    Ok! I get that it is supported to a point by most in the community. I ask then why do you think that pornography is supported or liked?
    Pornography is supported and liked by a large number of people in the world, I would suspect that the ratio of people in the world that like it, compared to the ratio of people in this community, are very similar. The only unique thing about pornography within this community, is that there are often diapers involved, which I would explain as the result of puberty hitting while we also had the fascination of being babied or just wearing diapers. In the end though, just like people here have been saying that they don't like to mix their little side with sexual side, I also suspect that the little side doesn't influence the amount of sexual drive a person has because sexual drive is a part of their adult lives.

    So why do people like and support it in this community (not the original question, but its how I read it at first)? Really for the same reason that people like and support it in the rest of the world. It can be used to either heighten the sexual experience, or it can be used to quicken the sexual experience. Sometimes people have time on their hands so they want to have fun, or other times, people want to take care of business quick and get onto other things.

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    Would you agree that the viewing of pornography actually turning the person you are viewing as an object to advance your sexual pleasure.

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