for me I am told by my mom that I was like 7-8 yrs.' old and my whole family knew I was a bed wetter but most just made some type of special arrangement (like sleeping on a bed with a rubber sheet). My aunt who seemed to not like me because my dad was a real piece of crap(her thought at the time was I'd turn out to be just like him) well anyway. Mom dropped me off by her to spend the weekend while she took a well deserved vacation.(single mom working 2 jobs and me a very sickly kid with severe Asthma). I wish I could give her a vacation now (she has had a double Mastectomy and has incurable Cancer)My mom is so strong, awesome and my best friend) Ok,ok! Well she dropped me off by me aunt and she or us went to the supermarket and she bought me a Big box of diapers and supposedly not only forced me to wear them the whole weekend she made me play outside and get babysat on one of the afternoon by a girl I am told I was friends with to babysit me. My mom said she'd never seen me so distraught and it literally changed me as a person(made me more introverted and shy) Today up until a few years ago when I was fighting for my life and diagnosed as a paraplegic an Anoxic brain injury, my aunt came to see me in the hospital many times but I felt something inside about her I couldn't explain. Then my mom told me about what she'd done to me and how she treated me. that feeling I couldn't explain was Anger & hatred. I am not nice or courteous to her ever and could care less what she says or thinks of me as far as I'm concerned that was child abuse and she got away with it. I tried to confront her about it one time and she told me it never happened and I was crazy while she couldn't get into her car to leave fast enough....So what's yours,we all have em' I have more 2 to be exact and will add them as this thread gets wings. It's healthy to talk about this or let it out, this is the first time I've ever spoke of this and yeah it makes me angry but it felt good to share this with our community.