I have somehow managed to meet an amazing, caring and totally open woman. We've been dating for several years and are now engaged. I've been incontinent for quite some time and she has known that but only last year did I reveal to her about my adult diaper fetish and she not only was ok with it but has completely embraced it and has been openly...participating in my enjoyment of diapers, we have even dabbled in some AB stuff. It has truly been wonderful. Unfortunately though I still find myself constantly holding back and afraid to be open and speak my mind about any diaper related topics or discussions because I still keep thinking that what I am about to say will cross the line and creep her out. Any advice on what I can do to fight the paranoia and finally be more open to discussion on the topic?