i just got this awesome idea on how to order diapers online without worrying about parents finding out what you ordered.
first, it's good to order from a place where discreete packaging is guaranteed. second, you have to let your parents know about an upcoming delivery. the best way to do that is to get a pretend phone call from a friend and say something like: "so you're gonna be away for a while and you need someone to recive and hold some important package for you? yea i think i could do you this little favour."
have this pretend conversation where your parents can hear you, then casualy tell them that you're gonna recive and hold some important package for your friend while he's away. that way your parents won't be suspicious when you get the delivery and since the package is "not yours" it's completely normal not to open it.
and that's pretty much it. i might try that so i can finally order proper abdl diapers. i wanted them for so long and now i might be able to get them that way