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    Hi!
    Before I start, I'd like to say that "natural adult baby" is no official term. It's just something I came up with, because I didn't know how else to describe it. So let mi explain what I mean by that.
    Natural adult baby is someone who can't fall asleep without his teddy bear, who gets very sad whenever he has to say goodbye to his mommy, who likes to play with lego, who gets shy around new people, who can't handle it when you are mad with him and instead of getting mad as well, he just looks at you with his big sad eyes before looking down at his shoes. It's someone who desperately doesn't want to be alone and who always flushes when someone says something dirty. (All those things I heard from someone or saw someone do, but not the same person.)
    It is someone who is unwillingly very adorable.
    My question is - do you know someone like that? Do you find them cute? And does it make me a caregiver, when I absolutely love those people and want to take care of them, but am not sure whether I would like to take care of an actual adult baby?

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    hahaha ... Ummmm... yes.
    Oh the adult stuff can be learnt, and it is possible to manage in an adult world, but I can assure you there are 'natural adult babies'

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    Hi Leilana,

    I tend to also have a name for this or along this lines. i call it a True Adult baby, (not that other AB's are lies lol) my definition for this is as follows..

    A lot of AB's are DL's as well, they find a sexual attraction to diapers, as well as liking being a baby, to me this is a non true AB.

    A true AB to me, is one that obstains from sex, (actually its not such an adult baby as a child trapped inside an adults body) children do not have any sexual feelings.. any AB that matches this description or idealism I term as a True AB. Some AB's do not like or want any form of sexual relationship. Me included. I think this is something to do with the Child inside of us having a more dominant position (although our adults versions can take over quite easily)

    Ps.. please. i do not mean to offend anyone with this post.. it is just my opinions..

    I get upset just watching children playing or getting attention from their Families (something i missed from my childhood) my last time was only about 2 years ago, when my cousin was playing in the garden with her father, I burst into tears and had to leave the house. I went home and felt awful for a few hours.

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    Oh and these special people absolutely adore being adored. If you feel a serious inclination to be a caregiver, then I wish you all the best and hope you find a baby to love.

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    i would suggest if you are not sure about looking after an AB or little, Find an AB who you are willing to work with, and look after them for a day, then maybe 2 and so on.. build up on it, see if it is something you would like.. Their are plenty of AB;s who would jump at the chance to be looked after.

    Babylea

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    Just want to chime in quietly on the point about sexuality....it's a perfectly natural part of being human, albeit an extremely complicated part, but natural all the same. As such I don't think it has a bearing on what you describe as a natural baby...it's either there complementary to it or not....that's a separate issue of sexuality, of which there is an enormous spectrum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babylea View Post
    actually its not such an adult baby as a child trapped inside an adults body)
    Exactly! I couldn't explain it in a better way. And that's what I find most adorable about them - their inner child. Not when they are trying to be cute but when they are without even knowing someone could find it cute.
    I'm really sorry you felt so sad you cried Hope you feel better now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leilana View Post
    Exactly! I couldn't explain it in a better way. And that's what I find most adorable about them - their inner child. Not when they are trying to be cute but when they are without even knowing someone could find it cute.
    I'm really sorry you felt so sad you cried Hope you feel better now
    It happens, my emotions get bottled up, (my adult side fighting) and eventually something sets me off.. it takes quite a lot but it happens lol..

    BabyLea

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    Quote Originally Posted by ozbub View Post
    Oh and these special people absolutely adore being adored..
    Well, somethimes they do, somethimes it insults them a little to be treated as a child or they get a little shy because they feel like they shouldn't be childish, but once they find out I find it adorable and that they can even get away with things when they look at me with their sad eyes they usually enjoy it

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    To your post about sexuality - I agree that sexuality is something natural and shouldn't be seen as something bad, but "natural adult babies" don't really want to act childish on purpouse. They are not trying to be cute and their sexuality has nothing to do with being AB. That for some ABs it is sexual to act like that is completely ok, but that's not what i mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babylea View Post
    actually its not such an adult baby as a child trapped inside an adults body
    That sounds an awful lot like the definition of a "Little" to me... I should know, I am one.

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