Ok, so I've been an abdl since I was 18, so I've been an abdl for 19 years now. I've kept it pretty much under wraps. My mom and a few friends know, that's it.
In the last several years I have decided to wear when I am traveling, almost every day on vacations and road trips. Recently in the last year or two I've found myself in situations where I have been in urgent need of the bathroom away from home, both bowel and bladder; having a messy accident once when I could not get to a bathroom soon enough.
I should say I have had spinal problems with pinched nerves in my lumbar region, arthritis in my lumbar region, and found to have a mild spina bifida when I had an MRI prior to my back surgery in 2012 for a pinched nerve.
Next week I'm going to be going with my mom and her church group on a trip. I do plan on being diapered the whole time and have shipped diapers ahead for the trip as well as have some packed in my bag.
My question is, if anybody says anything should I just give the whole "I have incontinence issues and would rather be safe than sorry" and leave it at that.?