Any help here would be fantastic. I am not an ABDL. I need a little help understanding a few things.
So an old friend of mine started talking to me a couple days ago, and it turns out he knows my boyfriend of two months. Since they are from very different areas, I asked how they knew each other. After a lot of questions and guessing, he finally admitted that he knows my boyfriend through an online ABDL site. This is all very new to me. My boyfriend doesn't even know that I know. I've been trying to give him opportunities to talk about it without seeming too obvious, because I want him to get to the point where he feels comfortable enough to tell me himself. But my friend pointed out that he is hiding it from me and trying not to be an ABDL for me, even though I never knew. I don't want him to change for me. So my first question is, should I tell him I know?
My second question is what do you guys expect from a non-ABDL girlfriend? I already know that I do not want to participate and that it is a turn-off for me (no offense). I have already tried looking up porn to see if it would do anything for me, and it doesn't. It just makes me feel uncomfortable. I mainly just want to know what to expect so I don't make him feel like crap when he surprises me in a diaper one day. And how do I tell him I don't want to be a part of it without him feeling like I don't accept him or love him?
I'm really sorry if I offended anyone. That's not what I'm here to do. I just need to know if I should work for this relationship to work or if I should just cut it off and save him some hurt. Thank you.