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    Question The Function Of A Mommy Or Daddy

    Many a people here desire having or already have a mommy or daddy to accompany them in their little lives, but we all have a personal motive and expectation of what a mommy or daddy's function should be. I'm curious as to what people want from a mommy or daddy in terms of activities, as well as their function as a whole.

    For me personally, I'm at a point in my life where I'm going through some changes and I haven't been feeling 100%, so for me it's important that I have a daddy whom I can ask for advice, someone I can turn to if things get difficult emotionally and just ask for a hug (I'm a sensitive boy ), but also someone to just have fun with watching cartoons, engaging in playtime and what not. For me it is therefore somewhat of a necessity to have a daddy, but it's also something that's just nice to have.

    That's enough about me. What are you guys's needs and or desires when it comes to mommies or daddies?

    - Finn

    P.S. If this is too vague a subject, don't be afraid to ask me to specify it more.

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    I don't feel I desire too much. When it comes to a caregiver, I'm not looking for someone of a certain gender, or someone who appeals to my other kinks and whatnot. Just someone who is willing to do what they can to make me feel babyish. ^^

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    I feel that a mommy or daddy need's to be your rock. I need my mommy there to snuggle me and make me feel safe when I'm feeling depressed or anxious. It's the connection, the warmth and shelter, that makes an experience authentic. The parental smile and tone of voice, that's what brings us closer to a different reality.

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    Someone of my faith, who can communicate without screaming. Someone who understands that Little means Little, big means big, and n'erry the two should meet. I feel like some of the ways I learned to be nice to people and make them like me were wrong, but I'm still learning what to do instead. Someone stable enough for me to guage my response from. Daddy's not mad at me for needing to wear, so I don't need to be. A Bama fan, so mom will let him in her house, and someone to have fun with. Someone I can talk to, who loves me, who gets me, big and Little.

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    I've dreamed up the perfect mommy since I was at least 8 or 9 years old. The way she has looked changes somewhat over the years but what I've truly desired out of her has been the same. Someone for nighttime cuddles, picking out cute dresses to wear, quiet activities, unconditional love, stories, and other things mommies ought to do.

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    At this stage in my life, I'm mostly looking for someone who can provide structure and, to an extent, freedom from responsibilities. Not that I'd like to shirk work, I'd just like to have somebody who guides me towards what things I should be doing and provides praise and punishments depending on whether I perform them. That's the one thing missing from my life as a little I think, and one of the big things I miss about childhood.

    I also require lots of affection and hugs, and someone who takes a genuine interest in my little side ;3

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    For me, mommy or daddy is a caretaker and an emotional support I can tell anything to. Mommy would bathe me, diaper me, feed me and make me feel little when I need it, but she would also be able to talk to me adult to adult when she needs to. Mommy should feel free to talk to me about anything

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPDude View Post
    For me, mommy or daddy is a caretaker and an emotional support I can tell anything to. Mommy would bathe me, diaper me, feed me and make me feel little when I need it, but she would also be able to talk to me adult to adult when she needs to. Mommy should feel free to talk to me about anything
    Very much my own thoughts regarding a Mommy or Daddy Caretaker type person.
    I wish for a gentle, loving Daddy to look after me.

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    I'm totally creeped out by the whole idea of a mommy or daddy. I don't want any one to "take care of me" It wouldn't make it feel little at all, only weireded out.
    My parents have always been unloving/caring(In the way I Need) and totally unsupportive in all areas besides giving me a place to live. In fact I feel abused by them all my life. Perhaps this is why I could not accept such. I could never trust some one enough.

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    Hmm, it's complex for me. I've been happy with having a friend that makes me feel babyish and like I need diapers from time to time. A full on mommy or daddy would only really make sense to me as a partner though because for me ABDL and sexuality are too wrapped up to separate, which I know isn't true for many other people. So it would have to be a loving partner, but one who is also willing to sometimes be dominant and make me feel little by taking charge of things, yet is kind enough to me that I know I can trust them completely. That's a tall order, I think. But it only takes one person in a big world to fill it.



    Quote Originally Posted by MickeyM View Post
    I'm totally creeped out by the whole idea of a mommy or daddy. I don't want any one to "take care of me" It wouldn't make it feel little at all, only weireded out.
    My parents have always been unloving/caring(In the way I Need) and totally unsupportive in all areas besides giving me a place to live. In fact I feel abused by them all my life. Perhaps this is why I could not accept such. I could never trust some one enough.
    I wonder if you might consider more of an equal relationship then? Would you consider something like a brother or sister type role, or simply a friend who, out of concern for you, checks from time to time to make sure you don't have an accident or something of that nature?

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