Tyger said:
So I think that these two particular topics would be really interesting to get advice on. If anybody here who is in an asexual relationship can chime in, I think that would be informative. I have always imagined that asexual relationships would work out pretty well for an AB that really just wants the babyish aspect of the lifestyle and not the sexual fetish aspect. I could imagine that this would work out pretty well for you since you aren't looking for sex. Personally though, there is a lot that I don't understand about asexual relationships, although I can understand why somebody who is asexual would still want a partner.
Also, I think understanding the dynamic of somebody who is being mommied by another little might be a bit interesting. Does your mommy plan on being taken care of by her daddy? If there are days that daddy is not available, will she be looking to you for a bit of care-taking sometimes? And are you prepared for that? It might not be the case that this happens, since from what I understand, sometimes being in the parental role can cause a little to feel less like a little until the parenting has gone away. It might be that she just feels like being a mommy around you, although I think it is important to understand if that is something that you might be asked to do, a lot of littles who act as a care taker will still sometimes want to be taken care of themselves.
Well as it is, we've discussed a lot about boundaries and the like already, one of them was obviously when she is in little mode (or kitten mode) or even when her Dom is in his puppy mode, one of the easiest things we agreed on was the fact that because I'm not comfortable in a dominant position, I wouldn't have to be in one. Even when she's in a little mode, we've had some seniero's where we've played together n' the like but she still held a bit of dominance over it, for her some of this is sexual, like my punishments, one being sexual and she's a...ah...what's the word, sadist and masochist, her and her Daddy are much more sexual then she and I are, and that's perfectly fine.
We have a lot of lines drawn, and they're are going to be times it's just her and Grandpa, and I told them at point "those'll be the nights i'll take over the living room with the xbox and a can of redbull"
We have things set up, like I can be diapered, even in public (she has a diaperbag *giggles*) and even wet but no scat (which was something we mutually agreed on), she enjoys dry-nursing me, but her partner isn't too comfortable with it, so out of respect, we'd only do it during cuddling time! there are other things like bathtime and naptime that she does with me, I really think we've found a place where we're all happy.
Her partner (Grandpa) and I get along really well, we're both former Air Force and just a lot of shared interests in general. He's just as protective of me as Mommy is, he just shows it differently.
Grandpa, Mommy and I are all in school, Grandpa's going to mechanic school, Mommy's doing online classes and i'm working on my doctoral dissertation for CS, but he's going to school twice a week really far away ((bout a 3 hour drive)) and he also works night, so when he's gone, I keep mommy company!
