Im a DL with a non DL partner. We have known each other a long time. We were friends before we ever were a couple. I came out DL to him before we started our relationship. But, at that time my diaper urges were not like they are now. We have been together for a long time. He is cool with me wearing at home and every night. But, my desire for wearing daily (not sure if i need to 'use' them yet while out) is insatiable and on my mind whenever unpadded. It gets me really down in undies. He thinks it is embarrassing when i wear in public. He got mad once after we had been out all day. He patted my butt and noticed i was wearing (dry). It has to be a tab-style regular diaper, no mens depends will do. But, on a few occasions he has reluctantly let me wear out. I love the guy very much and he is pretty accepting about it. But, i need this and dont want to upset him either.