When I wear in public or around my friends and family I wear them just like regular underwear. I don't wear special clothes, I don't wear baggy pants and I don't wear shorts/boxers over my diapers. I wear them just like I would underwear. Of course I don't wear a really thick diaper like dry 24/7 but I also don't wear a really really thin diaper ether. I normally wear northshore light or bambino. I have always felt that as long as they cant see my diaper I have nothing to worry about. I don't care if they see bulge or and out line of a diaper. If they cant actually see the diaper they have no proof I am even wearing a diaper. Being scared and paranoid of wearing in public or getting caught just ruins your life. I know there are people on this board who do get scared and paranoid or wearing in public or changing in a public rest room and I just hope they eventfully get over the fear because life will be so much better.