Heavier cotton fabric pants or shorts of almost any kind will work especially those with larger inseams or crotch areas. Go shopping with your diaper on and you'll quickly find out what works and what doesn't. Wear a size or two larger than your actual waist size. My diaper always sticks above my pants or shorts, but I have my shirts tucked in or wear shirts that hang loose. To be honest, the more you wear diapers, the more you realize that nobody notices them or could care less if they did. I've gone months wearing thick cloth diapers and plastic pants to work and nobody noticed. I think if you are not used to wearing diapers, you're paranoid and the truth is you don't need to be.