I would never want to discuss anything, including my personal life, including ABDL, in the media.
One reason is that I am a very private person.
Another reason is that the media/TV are not there to seek or defend truth and objectivity, even when they like to pretend doing so. While some rare individual journalists, reporters, anchors or media employees might have these nice goals and values, at least in the beginning of their careers, as a whole the media have other values much higher in the ranks than truth. Like attention, viewership, advertising $$$/£££, reinforcing the herd thinking and endless political correctness. (end of rant)
As a more constructive opinion, I believe the internet (like blogs, social media or forums like this one) is much more powerful than traditional media for potentially spreading the true non-sensational message about ABDL.