I have been dating my SO for about a month and a half, and he just came out to me as AB/DL. I am doing my best to support him. I have been reading up about the fetish and trying to educate myself as much as possible. The problem is, I am not interested in doing age play with my SO. I also do not want him to go to someone else for a 'Mommy' relationship he has been looking for. He has told me that our relationship comes before his AB/DL side, but I am still worried that our differences might come between us. Does anyone else have a 'vanilla' partner and makes it work for them?