A few days ago, I told my boyfriend of about a year that I am an ABDL. He was fine with it, but very quickly said he didn't want to participate and didn't want me doing anything around him. He implied to not even talk about it and now I'm confused. It seems only thing that changed was now he knows. Don't get me wrong, I am incredibly relieved that he accepted this fact about me, but it feels like nothing changed. I still feel like I'm hiding something. I don't want him to participate if he doesn't want to, but to not even discuss it at all seems counter productive. Am I just reading too much into it? Or am I just being selfish? I think it's the second one.