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    I've been a diaper lover for a very long time, since my early teens, I tried to fashion my own because I didn't have the money to buy, which I'm sure that I'm not alone in this. I could only indulge my wearing every so often most of my life, by putting it on the back burner.
    So when My wife passed over 11 years ago, I kind of started to get a renewed interest in diapers once again. I was an occasional wearer,1 or 2 times a week satisfied very well at the time. Spring ahead two years to 2006. I was diagnosed with Prostrate cancer in December of 2006 and had the Prostrate removed in late February 2007. I was peeing quite a bit after the surgery and the Doctor suggested that I consider wearing diapers 24/7 for 3-4 months. After about 3 months, things seems to have simmered down and I went back to my occasional wearing All was hunky dory until this past February, I had to go the ER. It turned out that I had a 9mm Kidney stone that wouldn't pass. They decided to keep me overnight and the next morning, the placed a stent in from my kidney to bladder. Several hours later I went home. I had used the bathroom just before heading out. By the time I arrived home and walked to my front door, I had not even made it to my front door, I had peed myself and all over the front porch.
    That started another chain of events for me. I couldn't be much more than 10 feet from the bathroom I would have a mess to clean up. I mentioned this to the Doctor and he said that it wasn't all that uncommon and he suggested that I just wear diapers 24/7 until they could get the stone smashed up. All in all, I knew that I could handle that.
    It took almost a month for them to find space to destroy the stone, I wore a diaper to the procedure and only removed it when we had to go into the procedure room. To shorten this up a bit, I will cut to the chase.
    As it turns out the 10 foot has gone by the wayside. Now if I'm going out, I have to be diapered if I'm going to be more than an hour and a half. When I'm lounging around watching TV, I don't have to go until I stand up and then watch out, most of the time, I don't make it to the bathroom, I was hoping that this would have cleared up by now. As it is now I seem to be stuck on the 24/7 merry go round I feel sometimes that I should be able to control my self better. If I have to, I will wear 24/7 but I'm not real keen on that.
    Does anyone have any advice? Thanks in advance.

    Dave

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    I guessing that you've kept your doctor informed about all of this? If there's little the medical profession can do, then I think that wearing diapers is your only fall back until things change. It could be worse. After back surgery, I couldn't pee and had to catheterize myself for six weeks until things started working again.

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    Yes both my urologist and family Doctors have been informed and stated the same thing, wear 24/7 until things change.

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    Hi again my fellow DL's I have an update to my original post of three weeks ago, my situation has improved since my original post. I don't have to wear at home nearly as much and for me that is big. I do wear at night as I still don't myself to not flood myself and when I'm out more than an 1 1/2 hours though. Things are beginning to look up for me as I don't think I'll have to wear 24/7, which I didn't want to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 43goofball43 View Post
    Hi again my fellow DL's I have an update to my original post of three weeks ago, my situation has improved since my original post. I don't have to wear at home nearly as much and for me that is big. I do wear at night as I still don't myself to not flood myself and when I'm out more than an 1 1/2 hours though. Things are beginning to look up for me as I don't think I'll have to wear 24/7, which I didn't want to do.
    That's good news. Happy to hear it!

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    Glad to hear you don't need to be diapered at home hope things keep improving so you can loose diapers completely.

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    Thanks for the encouraging help, my situation is becoming less and less each day. Now I have to have padding only when I'm out more than 1 1/2 hours or longer, however I have been able to cut down my night time wearing

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxx View Post
    Much as we love diapers, having the choice is always better.
    Though I count myself as "diapered 24/7", there are occasions from time to time that I choose not to be diapered. Maybe it's an afternoon I'm going to be away from home working outside, or out walking for a long time in the heat. I used to be a more "die-hard" and even in thosse situations I'd still be diapered, but in several cases I ended up suffering for it. It's just not worth it. Having the choice is a good thing, because sometimes NOT wearing really is the better choice, if you are able to choose when not to wear. I wear because I enjoy it, and when I'm not going to be enjoying it, it's time to back off briefly.

    So I don't envy the incontinent, I respect their situation and recognize sometimes it causes unavoidable and unpleasant problems. But on the other hand, I'm certian I will be able to handle it better if it ever becomes a reality for me.

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    Being single, and having my own house, I am usually not diapered in my own home, at least in the evenings, mostly to air out, I will note however that i'm about 5 steps from the bathroom and can usually make it.

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