Hey everyone hope y'all are doing well. So as the title expresses I am now out to my girlfriend. This isn't a new occurrence, it actually happened after about 4 months of dating, if i remember correctly. As of now we have been going strong for almost 9 months. She is very special to me and I can honestly say I will marry this girl. With that being said she has seemed to take the whole AB/DL thing well. She isn't the vocal type but she immediately refused to leave me after I told her that night in the campus library. However, she hasn't asked many questions or engaged me on the topic. I bring it up every once and a while when talking but never use specific words seeing as we are often out in public on campus. Needless to say there has been a surprising lack of questioning about the matter. The only time we have talked about it was when a friend of mine found my stash in the dorm, and when I was asked by her what was in the package I had received, which was a cloth diaper I had ordered. I guess my main question is how do I engage her in discussions of this matter. Im afraid if I harp on the topic to much she will get annoyed or think in weird and leave. I don't want her to assume this is all I think about or that it is more important to me than her. I love her and just want her to be happy. I want to make sure she is ok with my choices before we are married. This leads me to my second point, how do I eloquently expose her to my ABDL tendencies. The last thing I want is to disgust her. I also don't want her to go into this relationship blind. I want her to be able to make decisions based on truth, if that means she might leave me over this then I will understand. It will be devastating because I love her, but I want her to be happy. As of now she has only seen one cloth diaper and that was because it was in the mail, she has yet to see me wearing one, using a Paci or bottle, or even wearing and infantile onesie or footed pajamas. I am at a total loss as how to bring this up or engage here in these activities which i want her to understand and be comfortable with. Basically, I want her to be happy and informed and I guess I am a little worried because there seems to be a lack of communication on this topic, despite me engaging in regression or diaper wearing on a regular basis. Sorry for the long post and sloppy writing. I appreciate y'all taking the time to read my post and look forward to any comments given. Thanks y'all.