I am thinking about ordering online, but have some questions and concerns.
Let's start out with some info on my current status and living situation:
• I currently live with my parents
• They are extremely nosy, always try to get into my business, give me very little privacy, and enforce lots of strict rules on me
• They have legal guardianship over me, and one of them therefore has access to my bank account (and has talked about wanting to prove that to PayPal to access my PayPal account too, but has yet to do that), and can check any payments that I make
• One of them works somewhere for 8 hours a day on weekdays; the other is unemployed and sometimes runs errands, but on an inconsistent basis (and usually when the other parent is home to watch over me), usually does not tell me more than a few hours in advance, and rarely says how long they will last and where to
• I do not have a driver's license or own my own vehicle
• My nearest post office is several miles away, and therefore inaccessible
• None of my friends or family members know my secrets, they do not come to my house or visit me in person often, and I cannot rely on anyone but myself (and normal delivery people) to get my packages
• If my parents end up being home when a delivery arrives (or worse yet, I end up not being home), then there is a 99.99% chance that they would open it without my permission and discover my secrets (I do not want to tell them my secrets or have them to find out)
Now for the questions and concerns;
• I know that the shipped products have discreet packaging, but would the transaction info in my payment accounts be just as discreet as the packaging labels (just in case the parent with bank account access notices any unusual transactions)?
• I know that items can be held at a shipping center to be picked up (which is not an option for me without a car or driver's license), but after arriving in the center, could I call over (as soon as both of my parents are away) and have the package delivered then (but not after a certain timeframe that I might give, just to be safe)?
I just pray that my situation is not hopeless…
Any help and advice will be immensely appreciated.
I do not have time to visit this site very often, so I might not reply or read any responses any time soon.