So, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and recently I've been contemplating telling him that I'm an ABDL. I know it's different for everyone, but does anyone know some signs that they might be open to me being an ABDL. I love him and I don't want to lose him because of this.
Some background knowledge, my boyfriend is a very logical person. Though he can be very expressive, sometimes he seems to just crush his emotions. I actually told him I was demisexual not too long ago (because I didn't realize I was until after we started dating) and he responded with how this would affect our relationship ( that was almost a quote). When I think of telling him, the first response I imagine is 'how is that logical?' don't get me wrong, he's very loving and kind, and he supports me in practically everything I do, but it seems emotions don't always compute. It makes me wary to tell him, but I don't want to keep this a secret even if he doesn't take an active role. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading my post.