Hello I'm new to this site and I'm here because my fiance who I love with all my heart is an ABDL and I'm trying to understand, and accept his Why and how. I guess Im here hoping to get help with this. I don't think I will ever understand the why, but I know he has told me it has to do with stress relief. I guess I'm stuck on the how's... how can he be into all this? How did it all start? How can I be more accepting and more of what he needs? Having been with him for a little over a year I have come to love him more than any other man even the fathers of my 2 sons. Thats one of the things that makes this so hard my sons they love my fiance but they do not know this life and I don't want them to as they are only 3 & 7 .
My fiance wants to be diapered 24/7 which I'm OK with, he wants me to change him which I'm trying I don't like the spells but if I could find ways to avoid that I think I will be find.
I don't want to lose my husband part of him I think that's what I fear most!!!!
As he is now talking about taking the AB part to the next level he wants to be treated like a baby and with 2 sons to raise I see this as a struggle how can I give my man some of the life he fantasizes without exposure to my children??