I don't know what to do. My friend who is the leader of one of the bands I play in and my main employer just got a new girlfriend about a month ago. At first we didn't talk much but now she's part of the circle so we all get along. But there's just one problem: I have a massive crush on her! She's smart, sweet, funny and everything I like. I kinda/sorta think that just "maybe" she likes me too. We've never discussed it nor do I have the guts to tell her. I don't know what to do. I feel like a bad person for having these feelings. He's a great friend and I don't want to disrespect him but I get that feeling every time she's around and especially when she speaks to me. Please help!