I use both cloth and disposable. In a I actually feel more babyish in a nice cloth pre-fold, pinned on and plastic pants covering it. They are very thick and poofy and they feel a lot softer on my skin. I also have the Dependeco AIOs as well which ate great for going anywhere, but they aren't as absorbent. (I'm a heavy wetter) the downside to cloth can be the bulkyness. I don't have too much of an issue with the Dependecos and even wear them out and about sometimes, but the cloth prefolds are to bulky to wear under normal pants. Over both cloth and disposables feel diaperish to since they are both indeed diapers, but they both gave there own distinct feel and utility.