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    I am wondering how often girls would want to diaper boys if asked?
    Like how would they respond to the old "I'll wear one if you will"?
    Or hypothetically Him: "So, are you still into diapers? her:*blushes* kinda why? him: well, I'll wear one if you will? her: *blushes* sure! him: well, we can pick up a few things for our camping trip. her: ok.
    Another question is "will you change me if I'll change you?"

    Just a hypothetical question, but that's the scenario I envisioned.

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    Are these girls you met at the bus stop five minutes ago or girls you're in a relationship with? I think you're on pretty thin ice expecting that someone who isn't into it is going to just dive in with enthusiasm if they don't like you in the first place and I'd guess changing you won't be so appealing either without that connection first.

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    Well, considering girls are humans, I would say there are a LOT of variables to this question. But I'm going to go out on a limb here and say my opinion as a guy isn't necessarily desired here.

    Just remember, when fantasies are put into reality they rarely match up to our specifications.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trevor View Post
    Are these girls you met at the bus stop five minutes ago or girls you're in a relationship with? I think you're on pretty thin ice expecting that someone who isn't into it is going to just dive in with enthusiasm if they don't like you in the first place and I'd guess changing you won't be so appealing either without that connection first.
    More like ONE I've known all my life and she is only a couple years younger than me. (both of us are 18+ relax) And as I remember she had siblings and would take their diapers and randomly diaper stuff around her house (the miniature collie, her stuffed animals, even at a time her friends during a sleep over) and I am pretty sure she is still into it if it is brought up...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dprlvr1 View Post
    More like ONE I've known all my life and she is only a couple years younger than me. (both of us are 18+ relax) And as I remember she had siblings and would take their diapers and randomly diaper stuff around her house (the miniature collie, her stuffed animals, even at a time her friends during a sleep over) and I am pretty sure she is still into it if it is brought up...
    I see. That puts a pretty different spin on things. Context helps a lot. I'm curious why you didn't pursue this before if you've known her for such a long time. Have you ever raised the topic with her in any way that would indicate your own interest? Is there any attraction between you? If you do talk with her about it, get try to be clear as to your intentions as to whether this is just the ABDL side of friends with benefits or you mean something more by it. Personally, rather than approaching it as a dare type scenario, I'd want to be more honest about my feelings.

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    As with any intimate act, I suppose the real, sustainable answer would come as the result of experimentation. While being diapered by a mommy figure is likely to excite an ABDL reliably, it's hard to know often she'd be into it without knowing what she gets out of it. Would it be a part of, or a prelude to, something else? Does she just have a weird "thing" for changing diapers? Or would this be looked on by her as more of a favor, something that could easily get "old"? Hard to know. In any case, I think you're getting ahead of yourself. If you're brave enough to ask her (I'm a big chicken, FWIW!), then give it a go and see where it leads. But be open and appreciative of any offers you receive, and make it clear to her that, should she be at all uncomfortable with it, it can be over immediately. The more clear you make it that you appreciate her indulging you and that you're concerned with her feelings, the less likely you are to create any resentment that could ruin your existing relationship.

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    As trevor said, i'd think being honest would be best. However there are risk to everything, you know her much better than we do.



    Quote Originally Posted by dprlvr1
    even at a time her friends during a sleep over
    The moment I saw/heard that i'de of told her. If alot of time has passed tho people change.



    Quote Originally Posted by Cottontail
    make it clear to her that, should she be at all uncomfortable with it, it can be over immediately. The more clear you make it that you appreciate her indulging you and that you're concerned with her feelings, the less likely you are to create any resentment that could ruin your existing relationship.
    And this. ^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trevor View Post
    I see. That puts a pretty different spin on things. Context helps a lot. I'm curious why you didn't pursue this before if you've known her for such a long time. Have you ever raised the topic with her in any way that would indicate your own interest? Is there any attraction between you? If you do talk with her about it, get try to be clear as to your intentions as to whether this is just the ABDL side of friends with benefits or you mean something more by it. Personally, rather than approaching it as a dare type scenario, I'd want to be more honest about my feelings.
    Well, I got a job that was a 24/7 job and have been working that for the last 4 1/2 years, finally I've retired from/quit that job due to my hours being cut from 35/week to 13/week, so I just found the time to get out and be able to do stuff during the summer. 2. never really raised any interest about it, however she definatly has/had a thing for diapering. 3. yes, she has ALWAYS been attracted to me but too shy to bring it up around her friends, however she recently became single again. 4. more of looking for a relationship not just a "friends with benefits" thing. As for your next possible question, I am sure she would atleast try it if we were both to wear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dprlvr1 View Post
    I've known (her) all my life and she is only a couple years younger than me. (both of us are 18+ relax)
    she has ALWAYS been attracted to me but too shy to bring it up around her friends
    more of looking for a relationship not just a "friends with benefits" thing.

    As I remember she would randomly diaper stuff (the miniature collie, her stuffed animals, even friends during a sleep over)
    I am pretty sure she is still into it if it is brought up... never really raised any interest about it, however she definatly has/had a thing for diapering.
    OK, I sorta took all the important points from your posts and put them all together and have a few questions for you.
    How old are you? and how many years younger is "a couple of years"? 2 - 3 - 5? It is Important.
    Is there a reason the two of you have not gotten together before?
    Have you two kept in touch over these least 4 1/2 years or sorta getting to know each other again? Again, Important!

    How old was she during her (I'm guessing very open) "phase of diapering everything"?
    Was this something that lasted a few weeks? months? or longer? Important!

    Pretty sure she might still be into it? How do you know, or are you guessing?
    Have you, or anyone else recently brought up diapers or what she used to do recently?
    If so, what was her reaction? Happy to talk about it did she shy away from the topic or look at all embarrassed about that part of her past?

    I know this a lot of questions, but I'm really trying to help, and if you don't want to openly share, then you could PM me too.
    You could have a great girl there but if you approach her and the subject the wrong way you could definitely blow it, not a good thing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MandyBear View Post
    OK, I sorta took all the important points from your posts and put them all together and have a few questions for you.
    How old are you? and how many years younger is "a couple of years"? 2 - 3 - 5? It is Important.
    Is there a reason the two of you have not gotten together before?
    Have you two kept in touch over these least 4 1/2 years or sorta getting to know each other again? Again, Important!

    How old was she during her (I'm guessing very open) "phase of diapering everything"?
    Was this something that lasted a few weeks? months? or longer? Important!

    Pretty sure she might still be into it? How do you know, or are you guessing?
    Have you, or anyone else recently brought up diapers or what she used to do recently?
    If so, what was her reaction? Happy to talk about it did she shy away from the topic or look at all embarrassed about that part of her past?

    I know this a lot of questions, but I'm really trying to help, and if you don't want to openly share, then you could PM me too.
    You could have a great girl there but if you approach her and the subject the wrong way you could definitely blow it, not a good thing!

    1. me 21 her 19
    2. We have always been shy of each other but have really had a connection since our teens, never went out or anything though.
    3. We've seen each other at her place over the last two decades or so.
    4. She always had a thing for diapering I guess come to think of it.
    5&6. She had been asked by her friends about it a few times when they would find diapers from her (assumably) siblings and she would blush and play it off on her siblings.

    *Edit* she is definatly interested in me... She went by on a skateboard tonight and said hi in an obvious crush way,(The old Hiiiiii how are you doing, kinda way with the staring smile) and I made small talk about us going to a range tomarrow to brush up on our hunting skills. (No I didn't pop any questions about it I think I will just slowly get to know her again first)

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