Ok, so I have alot of medical issues due to being born early. I have told my girlfriend and friend about alot of them, like that I able incapable of making children. I am having issues trying to tell them about my incontinence though.
It isn't as bad as others have it. I mean, it is mostly a huge issue at theme parks with things like roller coasters or during car ride because of the bumpiness of the road. I do wet or mess at night or during the day sometimes but not too much.
My relationship with my girlfriend is pretty serious and I know I will have to tell her eventually. we plan on getting married and living together. I know I should tell her before that point. The issue is I am nervous and embarrassed and I do not want her to think of me differently or worse, be grossed out.
My friend is a different story. My friend is like an honorary little sister to me and she listens when i need to talk about things. Recently she decided that she wanted to take me to a carnival because I have never had a good experience at one. The thing is, I can't ride the rides without uncontrollably wetting or messing myself because of the speed, g-forces, etc. I could wear a diaper but i would still have to change and that would still raise questions.
She is determined to take me and wants me to have a good time. I'm going to have to tell her before we go but i have no idea how to. How exactly does one tell their honorary younger sister that they can not do the majority of activities at a carnival without having a major accident? Again, I am nervous and embarrassed.
I would appreciate some advice.