I am disabled and incontinent, I have a carer that comes and helps me every morning but so far I have been embarrassed and I take my wet nappy off before she gets here. The other night I pooed my nappy in the night so in the morning I got myself cleaned up but then had to tell her when she got here what had happened. She then said she would have cleaned me up, it's her job and she wouldn't have minded.
I'm hoping now that she will change me every morning and also put a nappy on me at night as previously I have been struggling on my own.
She is around the same age as me, and a friend as well as my carer and I don't want to put her in an uncomfortable position but she is getting paid!!