As a long time lurker and rare poster I'd like to pose a question to the community
So by some strange coincidence it would appear one of the guys I'm sharing a house with and have known for a while is to some degree an abdl - a little background:
Occasionally recently I had on my way home from work noticed a clear trash bag with cuddlz nappies (on collection day where here bags are just left on the Street - not entirely certain how I noticed in the first place) and had for a while been wondering who they belonged to. Now it seems I have an answer yesterday on my way home from work I encountered my flat mate coming down the stairs with a clear trash bag in which my attuned mind spotted some adult nappies. Just to be sure I wasn't mad I then took a walk later and wandered past the bag, which a cursory glance confirmed contained at least 2 tenas and an abena. I feel this coupled with the cuddlz I had seen before is beyond the realm of someone who merely has a medical problem.
So how do I broach the subject given that we almost never have time when it is just the 2 of us in the house. Is a text message out of the blue too abrupt ? What else might I consider?
Thanks in advance for any input