My girl is very new to diapers, but she has taken a liking to them very quickly.
She wears them whenever we are together, be it in my apartment or out and about with me. Her only limitation, which I share, is around family.
She is a little picky about them, though, and it's driving me nuts trying to figure it out. When we are alone, at home, she will wear whatever I put her in, obviously, but out and about I fully accept that she has 100% say in what she will and will not wear.
The solution we have settled on are Tena Lady Pants Discreet
While these are pretty, which is important to her, they are not very dependable.
She has leaked twice now, and it is putting a dent in her confidence. I can't let that continue, as I'm trying to build her up, not tear her down!
What we are looking for, specifically, are these traits:
- Low profile, does not stick out of the top of her pants too much.
- That cloth-like texture, or otherwise as quiet as possible. Anyone that has worn in public has felt that paranoia, I'm sure!
- Feminine looking, but failing that, plain.
- Non-baby. She is becoming DL, and loves being taken care of, but as an adult, not a baby.
To be clear on the "non-baby" thing, girly and cute is fine, just not baby-ish.
You guys know what I'm talking about, right? It's a kind of "I know it when I see it" thing, so I'm sure you guys know it when you see it.
The obvious solution is to use GoodNites, of course, but the ones they have at the stores near here (Sweden, yay!) are a little too small for her, and they seem to carry one size. I'm also worried I'll still have the same problem, just with a different design.
It being pull-up, taped or belted doesn't really matter.