hi guys. it's been a while since I've been on the site but I really need some help with something. but before I do let me explain some good news.
recently I came out to my fiancÚ about being who I am, babyfur, little, the whole nine yards. Not only was she kind about it but she actually said that I was silly to think that she wouldn't be accepting of it. it was a huge wait off my shoulders. something that I had been dragging around for such a long time, has come off and it's freeing. but there's something weird about it but not necessarily in a bad way.
A few days ago I asked her how this effects our relationship, and long convo short, she says that "it doesn't need to be a focal point in the relationship to incorporate it because that's treating it as something new and abnormal. best to do what you want without acknowledging it as something out of the norm." verbatim her text. a bit confusing. no, i'm the only one. ok . but i'm not entirely sure how to do that. I bought some stuff that's going to help me get in the swing of things but I still don't really know how to progress from here.
If anyone has any insight to something like this, it would be most appreciated. any way thank you guys for your help and for just reading this. i'm gonna see if I can talk to her a little bit more.