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    Default Do any other littles feel this way?

    I'm a little, and I have low to no interest in having a daddy/mommy. However, much of what I have been reading is focused around this dynamic. I look at all these happy Big/little relationships and get a bit envious, but at the same time I have no interest in being there. I'm beginning to feel like I'm not fully a little, or not little enough.
    I think part of it might be just how vulnerable my little side is, and how much I don't want to get hurt any more. Things seem to hurt more when it's the little side they affect.
    Are there any other littles out there who don't have an interest in having a mommy or daddy?

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    I really think there is perhaps two things at work here. One is the sensation of being a little - a personal sense of identity, something you can enjoy at an individual level and which requires no input from others, and then secondly, the relinquishing of responsibilities to another person (daddy/mommy)

    The second brings with it validation of your inward feelings, and that is important in making the little experience more authentic. The added bonus of a loving relationship ensures the kind of nurture a little expects something that otherwise can only be emulated through a transitional object like a teddy (sorry Teddy, I don't like talking about you that way )

    As for me, a mommy figure (my partner) doesn't alter my little personality, but when it's good, it certainly enhances it. Like in real life, when she's not available, I find alternate ways to comfort myself.

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    Ozbub has very good points there, and actually for me there are certain times I enjoy being by myself, I do not feel the need of someone else other than friends to share together, but as you mentioned when I look at those happy relationships I do get a somewhat envious and a little bit sad sometimes. I don't really feel the need of this type of relationship but I do feel it would complete the overall experience and would be a fun thing to try someday

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    I kind of have mixed views about it. Part of me wants to have a daddy to take care of me, but another part doesn't. I've always felt very vulnerable in my little side and I kind of feel that being taken care of would be somewhat condescending for the person doing it and, on top of that, I've always been a very timid person and the idea of someone having control over me is kind of daunting for me..

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    I have zero desire to have a daddy. If it happened I would try it but it's not something I'm really looking for.

    I feel like as much as I like being a little girl I don't feel the need to give up my power or responsibilities. I like to be in control so even little time has to be on my own terms

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    Most aren't so lucky to get fur families right the first time around, the second, or the third, and some just aren't cut out for it, so I get where you're coming from, but don't knock it until you try it. You'll make some of the best friendships in this community with the "fur family" dynamic...seriously...

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    I have been alone as a little for a very long time. My wife of 28 years found out about my little side only about two years ago. She doesn't want to get involved at this point. Honestly, I don't just want a mommy, I want her, my lover and beloved, to be my mommy.

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    I honestly do want a mommy, to be honest, not now of course but still sometimes....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obseletion View Post
    I kind of have mixed views about it. Part of me wants to have a daddy to take care of me, but another part doesn't. I've always felt very vulnerable in my little side and I kind of feel that being taken care of would be somewhat condescending for the person doing it and, on top of that, I've always been a very timid person and the idea of someone having control over me is kind of daunting for me..
    The concerns you describe are reasonable enough but aren't intrinsic components of the caretaking dynamic. The right person for you is one who takes those into account with you and acts accordingly. It's not an imposition or condescension but a relationship, and that requires two to make it work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittyninjaW View Post
    I honestly do want a mommy, to be honest, not now of course but still sometimes....
    I'm in the same boat. I'd like one. For me I'm worried about trying to tell a gf about this stuff. Not sure if it'd be easier to tell someone I know irl and see if they would want to do it, or find the rare jewel that is a female ABDL.

    But I'd love to get to experience what it's like to have a mommy. Never got the chance to get to be little with someone taking care of me. I'm not sure if I'd like it or not. But I'd want to try it at least once.

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