Looking for advice from the community on moving from self little bondage to allowing someone else to be the daddy/mommy/master. I have spent years setting up controlled self bondage, and have a nice collection of bondage toys because of this. But no matter what I do I always have a way out at my own control. Iíd like to try actually letting go of this control and actually experiencing bondage where someone else is in control so I canít take off the diaper, or spit the pacifier out, etc . But I also realize that releasing control to someone else presents the possibility for trouble. How does one go about moving into this world and doing so in a safe manner?