First off let me say that my boyfriend is AWESOME, loving, kind, caring, etc. He is a AB/DL and I generally don't have a problem with it and I try to cater to his needs, but sometimes it gets overwhelming and a bit more than I can take. Generally I can take him needing to be little only so many days in a row, but sometimes I need a break and he is usually pretty good about being big for me every couple of days, but sometime he pushes it too long.
Then there's the probably of while catering to his needs I get turned on, but can't get satisfied because that takes him out of his little mode. Also while he's in big mode I have to be careful what I do or I will send him into little mode and then I just end up being frustrated and inadequate.
I just need some help coping.