I have tried the ones with the cloth like wings that XP Medical has, and unfortunately they are not good. The initial fit is nice, but the sides stretch like crazy. I put one on, and made sure to go snug with the fit, and after 15 min or so, it had become loose, but the tapes had not slipped. After one small wetting, the fit became even more loose. So I pulled the top tapes, off of the bottom blue tapes, and re-positioned them to be a snug fit again, I probably moved all four tapes at least an inch from their previous location. After another 20 min, the fit was so loose that it was almost ready to fall off, and once again, the tapes had not moved. I really liked the old tena slip maxi, and wish that when these companies made cloth like diapers, that they would make it so they don't stretch out like that. I have had the same problem with the abena air plus, they just stretch so badly that they start to gap and slide down. The only cure I have found is to start snug, and then wear a pair of snug fitting boxer briefs over the diaper to keep it in place. Unfortunately I find that it makes for more heat retention, and I feel that not allowing the diaper to sag a little bit in the center area leads to more leaks
Iowaincon