Hi there! I have been a diaper lover for 10 years. I have been suppressing my diaper lover side for the longest time due to not being understood or accepted by family or spouses. Now I am single again and in my own home. I have an accepting mom, sister, and best friend. I live with my best friend... I have no issue with privacy or anything, but I can't get myself to wind down and enjoy life to the fullest yet... Maybe it will take a few more weeks? My main question is how do you know what diapers to try after buying the local store brands and name brands like Depends and Tena? I'm confused on what to try first: Molicare, Abena, Bambino, or Comfidry. I have seen sample packs but shipping is expensive... Or the packs are expensive. Any advice for a newbie?