Okay, I know threads like this are incredibly common around here, but bear with me. Recently, I've been thinking about telling my girlfriend about my AB/DL side. I really hate the feeling of having such a big thing behind my back whilst having a relationship when she's been totally honest and open about pretty much everything about herself. I've been dating her for a couple months now and she's the first girlfriend I've ever had before, which is why keeping this a secret from her is kinda stressing me out a bit. I get the feeling that she wouldn't mind it at all, but still, there's the chance that things might go South if I do tell her. Another huge factor with me wanting to tell her, is that we've been thinking about getting an apartment together come next schoolyear after summer. And how in the heck would I be able to hide all of my diapers, bottle, and my pacis when I share an apartment with her? I feel like it would be a huge relief off my back not having to walk on eggshells around her because of this for another few years. I dunno, I wanna say that she'd be okay with it, but at the same time I'm very unsure as well.
Do you guys have any thoughts/advice on the matter?