Lately I seem to be having nothing but issues with diapers. Um..let me start at my first issue.
1. I can't ever get diapers to fit me good. I'm a size 40 mens or size 20W womens and most diapers are either too small or too big. I've tried alot of different ones, Northshore was too big, Bambinos were too big, Waddlers were too big. Dry 24/7 mediums fit alright..Wellness briefs fit ok..but still kind of loose. Maybe it's the way I diaper myself? Since I don't have anyone to change me.. (v.v) I usually try leaning against the wall. Since I'm kind of big..if I try laying down, I can't see and am doing it blind..But when I change myself, it feels tight..but then when i go to move around it gets looser again.. I usually have to wear tight boxer briefs over them just to hold them up. (I don't have a diaper cover or anything..)
2. I get irritation (rash?) all the time. I'm not quite sure if it's diaper rash or not..but i always get it right on the upper insides of my thighs. I usually put Desitin on it and it goes away in a day usually but it's still sore and red for a day. I'm not sure if it's cause of the diaper rubbing against the sensitive skin there or if its diaper rash. I wore to bed last night and I toss and turn alot in bed, and when I woke up I had the irritation again. It seems to happen more when I wear it to bed than when im just sitting around in one. Any recommendations on what I can do to prevent this?