I just found out my ex had transitioned into a woman and identifies herself as female and she also claims to be bisexual and is no exploring AB. But when we were together, she told me that getting a sex change doesn't make you a woman, you will still be a guy and a woman will still be a woman if she got turned into a male. She also would put down gays and call them faggots and she didn't like bisexual either and told me if I had sex with another woman, we would still be friends and she wouldn't want to be in a relationship with me. She also hated AB and called them all pedophiles and treated me like I was retarded because I was AB and said she felt she was with a baby. Then I decide to look her up and see what she had been up to and if she ever got custody of her child and I find all this about her and she even has a female name so does that mean I have a ex girlfriend now and I now have to refer to having an ex girlfriend than boyfriend?
My husband told me that she was over comsicating (whatever the word is, I can't spell it). She was in the closet trans and bi and AB but wouldn't accept it so she was trying to keep it out of her life and wanted nothing to do with it and she went overboard. I do remember her telling me how much she hated being a guy and she as feminine and she shaved her body and wanted surgery to remove all her body hair and I remember her telling me if she wasn't incontinent, she still wouldn't be wearing diapers despite being a DL in her childhood and then forcing herself to get over it and bam she got in a car accident and ended up incontinent years later.
So why do people who don't like something and refuse to accept it in themselves take it out on others by not wanting them in their lives and have nothing to do with them? That would be like me not wanting to talk to people or want to be with anyone who has sex I find disgusting. If I don't like that sex, don't have it, simple as that. There was also a member here who didn't like AB/DL but yet liked diapers himself but wouldn't accept it in him s he also took it out on us by being all critical about it and what we do. There was also someone I knew online who had Asperger's but she hated having it so she didn't like others with it and she expressed how she liked to bully others with it. Why do some people do this instead of to themselves only? Why do they take their hate out on others instead of only hating themselves?