I visited DPF a few times, but didn't get involved at all, nor did I buy anything. At the time, I was in the fragile early stages of self-acceptance, and the crotch shots and stories there were a turn-off. Perhaps ironically, though I count diapers as a part of my sexuality, I've never really enjoyed sexualized conversation about them. But that was par for the course in the 90's; all the AB/DL sites, the Usenet groups, etc., were drowning in sex. I guess that's what happens when several generations of diaper fetishists suddenly realize, in unison, that they aren't the only ones.