So a couple of weeks ago I was browsing on Fetlife and there was a group of ABDL/TBDL people who formed a group for my area. I was surprised there was people in my area into this!
So anyways they wanted to get some socials, and munches going.. So I got an invite. The first time I was way too scared to go but I thought about it and ended up going to the second munch a month later!
I am not the type for anxiety but I was so worried about going, being caught, meeting a lot older people who are quite intimidating, and more!!
I ended up going and I was surprised how fun it was!! It was a quieter night due to the weather so only 4 other people were there..but man was it a great time to hangout and talk about our little sides!
Little advice...if you are worked up about attending a social, just get over the hump and do it!