Hello, I'm new to the site, so I'm sorry if this is the wrong place to be asking for advice.
I am trying to figure out my identity within the ABDL spectrum, and this is what I know so far. I've been into omorashi for as long as I can remember, but I only technically figured out what it was when I was a younger teen. I realized that when I fantasize about omorashi I often imagine myself as being younger and being taken care of.
However, when I think about having a relationship, I would not want somebody controlling me and I wouldn't want to control them. I don't feel either a 'dominant' or 'submissive' lable fits me.
As for diapers, I find them neither to be a 'turn on' or a 'turn off'. When I was about six my friend and I stole diapers from their little sibling and wore them. We got found out and in trouble, and I never did anything of the sort again. I'm curious to actually try one on to see how I feel, but I've been too nervous so far.
So I was wondering if any of you know where I might fit on this spectrum, or how I can find out? Thank you very much.