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    Question wetting

    I am pretty new to ABDL and actually wet for the first time early this morning. Did anyone else struggle when it came to actually going? Does this ease with time and become more natural or am I over thinking all of this?

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    Yes, it does get easier to do over time, as I understand it.

    Also, I see that you're new here, Welcome! You really should go ahead and introduce yourself in the Greetings/Introduction area, so that we can get to know you a little better.

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    Yes it does get easier as time goes on. You may also want to try different positions. Laying down seems to be the hardest. Soif you haven't already tried, you can try standing, sitting, sitting on the toilet or kneeling.

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    The way I see it: I was born with no inhibition whatsoever for elimination. Slowly I learned to control it and suppress it except for particular bodily positions, clothing pulled down, etc. So those can be unlearned just as they were learned. It might help to connect with any thoughts or worries about how things will go wrong if you stop inhibiting, e.g damage clothes, furniture, etc. Eliminating those by putting down some plastic might narrow it down to just the unfamiliar body position and clothing position. At one point I put some boards across the toilet when using it so it was more like a chair, to help get used to that when going. I know that at first it was very difficult, and that I became a little adjusted to it, though I'm not sure how effective it was. The point is just to be creative in approaching these learned inhibitions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peterthelion View Post
    Does this ease with time and become more natural
    Yes, definitely. When I first started I basically had to be standing in the bathroom in front of the toilet in order to go. It took me a year before I was really comfortable going while standing up, and I still have trouble when sitting in some positions.

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    Yea the first time it took me ages to actually let go, in fact I ended up sitting on the toilet with a tap running lol. But yes Ya will learn to trust the diaper and you'll be able to go no problem

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    I think understanding how my body works has really helped. Since we have two sphincter muscles that close off our bladders, even when you open the outer one the inner one is still closed so nothing happens. The inner sphincter is usually controlled involuntarily and takes a lot of stress off the outer one. Mine usually opens when I enter the restroom and sometimes when I hear water running. I can tell when it opens because I feel sudden pressure on my outer sphincter like I can't hold it very long. So I discovered I can control the inner sphincter somewhat. If I relax and think about releasing it or at first to learn the technique I mostly just concentrated on the things that cause it to open on it's own and thought about them.

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    In my case it seems to have a lot to do with "trusting" my diaper not to leak. Once you've found a good diaper (or other combination) that you are really confident in, "letting go" will probably be much easier. I also agree with all of the above posts, all good advice IMO. Especially the one about putting something additional down, or in, to protect against leaks in the learning stage.
    Last edited by Padded53; 19-Feb-2015 at 17:38.

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    For me I reached a point where I can pee myself almost on first thought, with exception of being around other people. Public wearing and wetting still has been a struggle for me because I'm always scared i'll leak and everyone will notice. Other than that, I'd say yes it'll e easier as time progresses

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    Your overthinking it a bit too much. First off, welcome to ADISC and two, it takes time. (Without hurting yourself or forcing yourself) you just let it go honestly. It's like gaining experience. You do it the first time, then do it overtime and you will get used to it eventually. Some people who go 24/7 by choice or have to will easily tell you it takes experience to getting used to it.

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