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    I have an account on a French ABDL website and forum. Many months ago I posted an adverts because I look for a daddy. Yesterday, someone contacted me. I tell him that I feel to be a little kid about 12 years old, I have Cerebral Palsy and that I look for a daddy, with nothing about sex, because my "parents" mistreated me and he said that I would like to care of me because my story upset him. After few email exchanges he asked me a face pic and he said that I am a beautiful baby boy.
    After that he asked me if I could send him a picture of me dressed like a baby but I said that I have not this kind of pictures because I never dress like that. I explainded to him that I look for a daddy to take care of my little bottom but not only for that. I look for someone who give me advice and support to have a better life... Finally he said that I'm not a real AB...
    I know that I'm not the "standard" AB, but for me it's not a game. I don't want to play to "Daddy and Baby" 1 time a week. I'm looking for someone to give me full support. Am I a freak?
    I feel so sad and alone now....

    Thank you having read it...

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    You're not a freak simply for looking for something different than many other ABDLs, and it's important not to let what one other random ABDL on the internet is or is not looking for dictate whether or not you feel that way.

    Stable, lasting ABDL relationships can difficult to form because there isn't one specific ABDL interest with an easy binary surrounding it; there's a range of possible interests for each side. This means a search can be a long one, and it's wise not to get too worked up about one or another not working out.

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    Hey, I'm not using baby clothes etc. but I enjoy with diapers/pacis, AP... Useless and expensive stuff I need not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghost01 View Post
    I have an account on a French ABDL website and forum. Many months ago I posted an adverts because I look for a daddy. Yesterday, someone contacted me. I tell him that I feel to be a little kid about 12 years old, I have Cerebral Palsy and that I look for a daddy, with nothing about sex, because my "parents" mistreated me and he said that I would like to care of me because my story upset him. After few email exchanges he asked me a face pic and he said that I am a beautiful baby boy.
    After that he asked me if I could send him a picture of me dressed like a baby but I said that I have not this kind of pictures because I never dress like that. I explainded to him that I look for a daddy to take care of my little bottom but not only for that. I look for someone who give me advice and support to have a better life... Finally he said that I'm not a real AB...
    I know that I'm not the "standard" AB, but for me it's not a game. I don't want to play to "Daddy and Baby" 1 time a week. I'm looking for someone to give me full support. Am I a freak?
    I feel so sad and alone now....

    Thank you having read it...
    Well, I think he was in a hurry to see pictures of you and when he didnt get that he insulted you. You dont need people like this, you need GOOD people. Here is a big hug to you from me *huuuuuuggggggssss*

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    Quote Originally Posted by magnolia View Post
    Well, I think he was in a hurry to see pictures of you and when he didnt get that he insulted you. You dont need people like this, you need GOOD people. Here is a big hug to you from me *huuuuuuggggggssss*
    I agree with this. Sometimes, two people can seem like they share the same interests, but one pushes the other in a way that makes the second one uncomfortable and it just doesn't quite work out. There's nothing wrong with the OP for trying and indeed I commend him for getting out there and looking.

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    Sounds like you were in touch with the wrong person, big time. Putting out an advert can attract the worst quickly. Always be careful when communicating with one you do not know. I hope you will find the right one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghost01 View Post
    I explained to him that I look for a daddy to take care of my little bottom but not only for that. I look for someone who give me advice and support to have a better life... I know that I'm not the "standard" AB, but for me it's not a game. I don't want to play to "Daddy and Baby" 1 time a week. I'm looking for someone to give me full support.
    There doesn't seem to be a common distinction between ABDLetc. the fetish (more common) and ABDLetc. the "lifestyle" (less common), which makes it frustrating for people like me and you to find people. I don't have any solutions to offer because I only recently accepted this part of myself; I just wanted you to know you're not alone.

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    I'm sorry he treated you like that. I agree with what some of the others have stated. It's hard for someone that is in the whole ABDL stuff for the fetish aspect to understand someone that isn't. Don't feel bad. You didn't do anything wrong. You told him upfront that it wasn't sexual, and you didn't want that part. It's his fault and not yours.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mattew View Post
    I'm sorry he treated you like that. I agree with what some of the others have stated. It's hard for someone that is in the whole ABDL stuff for the fetish aspect to understand someone that isn't. Don't feel bad. You didn't do anything wrong. You told him upfront that it wasn't sexual, and you didn't want that part. It's his fault and not yours.
    I'd like to add that lots of folks don't understand CP, either. I have it too, & we can be a lot for able-bodied people to take. I'm sure you'd have loved to show him a baby clothes pic, but, for all I know, you need help dressing. Maybe you do & he didn't understand that? Yeah, dude's a tushy! Pay him no attention.

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    Thank you everyone for al your messages of support!!
    Sincerly it warms my heart!! Tears are in my eyes
    Big hug to all of you <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

    It true that here people are more into ABDL "lifestyle". In France, people are quite only in the sexual kink. Sometimes it's a bit... weird!!

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