I don't know whether to laugh or what to do right now.
Well........ I was browsing around Fetlife in a local BDSM group that occasionally hosts littles events and I stumbled across the account of someone I know fairly well and see quite often. Like this guy had his picture up and everything. At first I was like nah this can't be him then I read his bio which washed away all doubt.
So where I'm at now is whether I should friend request him, bring it up casually in private next time I see him, or just totally drop it. My rationality for bringing it up is that I now know he's not a "Vanilla" per se. I'd have someone to talk to if I needed support or anything.
Idk lol this is more humorous than anything to me since I've never experienced it.