StormTroper said:
Before anyone asks why, I'll explain right now:
Alright I will give you advice but I am going to need to ask you a lot of questions in order to understand the details and be able to give you advice that is effective.
1. It's something I feel I need to get out of the way before I move away soon.
I don't make assumptions so I am going to ask you the following question. Are you wanting to do this because you want to be honest with both yourself as well as your parents in a way that is constructive and healthy for you?
2. I feel like I need to tell them the truth.
I take it you are tired of having to lie to your parents correct? Or is this something else entirely? Or is it because you are tired of having to lie to your parents
and something else on top of that? If there is something else please enlighten me as I do not want to assume anything at this point.
3. I've grown tired of hiding in the proverbial closet all my life, and...
You are free to choose anything you want to do. But you are not free from the consequences. Are you prepared to deal with the consequences? Don't get me totally wrong but it may or may not be worth it for you to do this but that is dependent on your specific circumstances that no one here can fully understand. Maybe it is worth it but I suggest you take a good hard look at what can go wrong if you do this.
4. I'd like to do my diaper wearing (discreetly) sometime without shocking them if they happen to get a glimpse of me wearing a diaper or if they open up a package addressed to me only to find diapers.
That may not be possible actually. But I could be wrong as well because I don't know your parents that well either. Once again though this is your choice and I will respect either one you make.
Now, with that out of the way, I need advice. My parents are conservative Christians and I am, too. In fact, my dad happens to pastor the church I attend and my mom is the secretary there. If I come out to them, all I want from them is for them to understand and accept my diaper fetish and to not judge me if they see me with them.
So, how do I come out as DL without them thinking I'm some sort of pervert (because I know I'm not)? Any tips or advice? Yes, I am serious about coming out, but I'm willing to risk it.
Well here are some links that will help you as well as give advice on whether you should go through with this or not.
http://aboutabdl.weebly.com/coming-out.html
This link will give you advice on how
not to come out provided you seriously do so.
http://aboutabdl.weebly.com/how-not-to-come-out.html
If you do decide to come out make sure you show your parents these links as well as it will help calm them down possibly if you get a bad reaction from them.
http://aboutabdl.weebly.com/abdl-phobia-and-misconceptions-about-abdls.html
http://aboutabdl.weebly.com/abdls-on-tv-and-stereotyping.html
These links might calm them down a lot as it was intended for
either ABDL teens or just parents of children that have grown old enough to be legally a adult.
http://aboutabdl.weebly.com/information-for-parents-of-abdl-childrenteens.html
With this advice I would highly recommend that you think really hard about what you can gain as opposed to what you could lose.
Provided that you do come out to your parents I highly recommend that you at least read the links above and make sure you tell them this after you move. I would recommend that you tell them (if at all) literally after you have moved the last box into your new home. Your still under their roof until that happens. If your parents try to tell you that this is a sin ask them where is it written in the bible that says wearing diapers is a sin? Do
not get confrontational and make sure you tell them that this is a part of who and what you are. It's not going to stop and it's not going to go away. Then emphasize that this is not going to go away no matter how much you
want it to go away. Show your parents exactly how
dangerous it can be to try to make you stop even assuming you want to stop. If they really care about you (which they probably do) then I don't think they are going to that argumentative about how to handle this.Give them time to come around if that is needed but always remember to
not be confrontational if that day comes.Other then that I can only give advice based upon the answers to my question or any additional information you give me through either a PM or openly on this thread.