I have been wearing both day and night for a long time. I have accepted that I am going to be wearing for life and I am totally fine with it. I wouldn't say I am at the point where I don't care who knows, but I have loosened up a lot lately. All of my doctors, my house maid, my Realestate agent, the FedX guy, my seamstress (a good story) and my Pharmacist know that I wear diapers. I am still a little shy about it. I have had a few dates and actually liked both women. However, I was not able to bring it up in a conversation with either of them even after a glass of wine. I wore a little extra bulk and nosey plastic pants in hopes they would say something, but it didn't happen. I think my next plan will be to have one of them over to the house for a cocktail, and then innocently leave a few disposables and plastic pants out in the open. If they get that really weird look, I will have my answer. If they are willing to ask question and discuss it, it may be a good move.
I will say one think that I never thought would happen. I moved and got a new house keeper. She is a single 55 year old lady that is honest, hard working, and extremely nice. When I interviewed here, she said she had worked for an older male that needed special attention. At that point I told here that I was very healthy, active, but I had to wear diapers. She was fine with it and said as long as I could change myself, it was totally fine. Today was her first day, and she is really awesome. I showed her my diaper pails (one for disposables and one for cloth and plastic pants. I told her I would be washing, but I wanted her to fold and dry. She immediately responded, I will take care of all washing, drying, folding, and shopping. I came back from lunch, and she washed and folded my diapers and plastic pants, and put them dearly away where they belong.
She worked all day today and will be coming back tomorrow (Sunday) to work from noon to 5:30. So far she is everything a single guy could ask of a maid/cleaning lady.
Now, back to getting a lady friend. Does anyone think that leaving some disposables and plastic pants out in the open to start a conversation on a second date? I just can scream it out and need a smoother messaging interface
Advice????