About a month ago I wet the bed while having a bathroom related dream on accident. I was kind of weirded out by it and talked to my wife about it. I told her how it has happened before a few times and she suggested I use female overnight pads when I am stressed out. I think it was due to stress. To my surprise she bought me my own pack in what seemed like an act of compassion .
I tried to get mens guards but she thinks if I wear thicker guards (like the diapers I like so much) my mind will let me go because it knows I'm protected. She aso thinks my mind was thinking I was wearing a diaper when I peed.
There's a devious plan here. I would like to get to the point where I can wear most nights or even suggest I protect myself more. I'm thinking of peeing on purpose without a pad on or should I have one on? Should I make it leak and suggest male guards?
I know every situation is different but do you think it could work a little or backfire. Has anybody done this to get to wear diapers?