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    Default So It Has been 1 week out of the Diaper Closet

    So ya it feels totally liberating, knowing that I choose to wear my diapers (loudly and proudly).
    I came out to my mom, who I am living with at the present moment, dad isn't in the picture. So now I wear pretty much whenever I want, even when my mom is home. Anyone else have any good or bad experiences coming out of the "Diaper Closet" with friends or family, let me know

    P.S. I still haven't peed in front of her yet, it's going to be odd i know it

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    Hey, I'm really pleased for you that you're able to be open with your mum and she's accepting of you!

    Just be really careful not to over do it! A lot of people are great with knowing things in theory, but don't like it happening in front of them. (E.g. I know my parents had sex, but as far as I'm concerned it was once and only once to make me. I wouldn't be so happy if they did it in front of me!)

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    Congrats! That's awesome it worked out for you. I could imagine how liberating this must be...like a weight is gone. I'm still building myself up to my first coming out so its reassuring to see that positive outcomes do happen.
    As far as wetting around her; remember she probably won't even know unless you make faces lol. There's also a good chance she assumes you use them. Still though, I can understand how it'd still be awkward. I'm 28 and in a similar situation so I totally feel your excitement.

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    Telling someone is like taking you're relationship with them calling heads and flipping a coin. Ok, well maybe not that 50:50 but still, there is allot of risk involved. And it's not to be taken lightly. I'm glad things worked out for you, but I hope others reading this are aware of the risks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by computerProgrammer View Post
    Telling someone is like taking you're relationship with them calling heads and flipping a coin. Ok, well maybe not that 50:50 but still, there is allot of risk involved. And it's not to be taken lightly. I'm glad things worked out for you, but I hope others reading this are aware of the risks.
    You may wanna use this link "https://www.adisc.org/forum/showthread.php/91627-I-came-out-and-my-mom-blew-up"

    As your link takes directly to my post about me saying something to duality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snivy
    You may wanna use this link "https://www.adisc.org/forum/showthread.php/91627-I-came-out-and-my-mom-blew-up"

    As your link takes directly to my post about me saying something to duality.
    Ah, sorry it's skipping down to last part of page I read lol.. fixed.

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    I came out to my wife in March of 2008, and it worked out well for me. I wear when I want and when it's practical. But wives are different from parents. Wives assume their husbands are somewhat crazy. Parents, on the other hand, want their kids to be healthy, including mental health. Asking them to accept wearing diapers is a tall order, so as others have said, I would go slowly. Don't overload her sensibilities. She is your mom and she loves you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BenzyD View Post
    Congrats! That's awesome it worked out for you. I could imagine how liberating this must be...like a weight is gone. I'm still building myself up to my first coming out so its reassuring to see that positive outcomes do happen.
    As far as wetting around her; remember she probably won't even know unless you make faces lol. There's also a good chance she assumes you use them. Still though, I can understand how it'd still be awkward. I'm 28 and in a similar situation so I totally feel your excitement.
    As far as I know I don't make wetting faces lol. And I told her I use my diapers and had to make clear that I won't have any bowel movements in them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Talula View Post
    Hey, I'm really pleased for you that you're able to be open with your mum and she's accepting of you!

    Just be really careful not to over do it! A lot of people are great with knowing things in theory, but don't like it happening in front of them. (E.g. I know my parents had sex, but as far as I'm concerned it was once and only once to make me. I wouldn't be so happy if they did it in front of me!)
    My mom doesn't know that its sexual she just thinks I like to wear and wet. But ya I wouldn't want to know details about my mom's sex life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dogboy View Post
    I came out to my wife in March of 2008, and it worked out well for me. I wear when I want and when it's practical. But wives are different from parents. Wives assume their husbands are somewhat crazy. Parents, on the other hand, want their kids to be healthy, including mental health. Asking them to accept wearing diapers is a tall order, so as others have said, I would go slowly. Don't overload her sensibilities. She is your mom and she loves you.

    I'm glad your wife is accepting of your lifestyle, and ya it's different than telling a parent, thanks for your reply

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    I'd take it easy before being so open about wearing diapers. Taking into consideration your age and the fact you're living with your mother, it might not be appropriate. She may know about it and accept it, sure. But there's no telling how she will feel if you're walking around crinkling loudly all the time. It might make her feel awkward or uncertain. My parents know about my secret but that doesn't mean will wear around them in a way where they can immediately know I'm wearing. It is your personal, intimate hobby and needs to remain discreet, whether she knows about it or not. Be considerate about her feelings before your own, especially if you're in her house.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeremyi View Post
    I'd take it easy before being so open about wearing diapers. Taking into consideration your age and the fact you're living with your mother, it might not be appropriate. She may know about it and accept it, sure. But there's no telling how she will feel if you're walking around crinkling loudly all the time. It might make her feel awkward or uncertain. My parents know about my secret but that doesn't mean will wear around them in a way where they can immediately know I'm wearing. It is your personal, intimate hobby and needs to remain discreet, whether she knows about it or not. Be considerate about her feelings before your own, especially if you're in her house.
    I agree but I do pay half rent, and I don't flaunt it, I haven't even mentioned the word since I told her and it's been over a week. She's just happy that I don't turn to drugs or alcohol, I used pot for 13 years and E for 3 years, so now that has been cleared up diapers don't seem that destructive of a habit

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